The clock on my laptop shows 3.20 AM now and i still don't seem to have any signs of sleep. Dinner has been great and I wasn't going much positive or negative either on the online poker i have been playing. May be the monotonousness of the game pumped me to write something. Anyway, Howsoever I am writing this.
I have always wondered how life has many dimensions. Every person has his own sense of identifying his/her own dimension of looking at life. The good old example of seeing a half empty or half full glass. That is a basic way of drawing a line between optimist and pessimist. One looks at the one half and the other looks at another.
But the classification i am writing here is much grayer/graver than it seems to most people. The difference between male and the female train of thought.
Biologically speaking, the classification is banal. Difference of few hormones.As a matter of fact, an embryo is always a female with XX chromosome at the time of its formation until the Y chromosome kicks in which causes the few differences(Biological differences, mind it!!). Imagine there were no Y chromosome.A world with only women. Fat ladies jealous of each other with no crime and wars in this world(only cold wars).
I wonder, how could a small difference in the hormones cause such a huge difference. I am not being a masculinist but yes women are a way different kind of a creature. The distaff has always been given lime light in this aspect of being wayward. Even during some of general discussions with my younger sister, she comes up with phrases like "ladkiya thodi ajeeb si hoti hai" and i am like "thodi ??????" . So i guess girls know this and still are okay with that.
Lets point out some differences, ummm,lets say attractiveness. Men are clear about their choice of females. If a man finds a woman good, 95% of other men will agree with him. "Yeah man!! She's good !!". whilst, in women's case, they have categories. They have cute ones, sexy ones, hot ones, innocent ones, sweet ones, caring ones, brotherly ones, manly ones,masculine ones...list goes on..I have heard all these till now(will update this list as soon as i discover more of these categories).
How about mood swings? There have been thousands of quotes about men's knowledge of women(mind it!! just quotes and no palatable knowledge!!). Women mostly don't know what they want. Actually, i think what they want depends on what kind of mind frame(rather mood frame) they are in. A few days back i was going through some random confessions page where i found many posts of girls confessing liking a guy and when that guy approached them, they changed their mind. A sudden 'realization' bumps into their mind that "No!! this isn't the guy for me. What a fool i have been". To my no surprise, there were no such posts or even i never heard of a guy changing his mind "suddenly". Guys are clear about what they want. Men of their word, if they like(let's use a moderate word here) someone, they will like her till the end. No matter what happens, their mind is never going to change.
Women's thoughts change more often than vibrations of a string of a guitar being played by Stevie Ray.
And i am a guy who has been around some of the smartest women of the country of my age(as society perceives them, not my personal opinion) ,though only few are there in my industry.Some come from elite engineering schools, some went to IIMs,Some are making more money than what their dads do.
I don't judge them being right or wrong. The only point i am trying to make here is that , in mine and most other males's view, they are psychologically different and understanding most of them is much more complex than understanding men.
A happy, non-moody and determined(meaning non-confused) woman is a myth.
Feedback Welcomed :)
And i am a guy who has been around some of the smartest women of the country of my age(as society perceives them, not my personal opinion) ,though only few are there in my industry.Some come from elite engineering schools, some went to IIMs,Some are making more money than what their dads do.
I don't judge them being right or wrong. The only point i am trying to make here is that , in mine and most other males's view, they are psychologically different and understanding most of them is much more complex than understanding men.
A happy, non-moody and determined(meaning non-confused) woman is a myth.
Feedback Welcomed :)
